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1 00:00:33,911 --> 00:00:35,411 Dave: What's up, everybody.2 00:00:35,441 --> 00:00:36,161 we're back.3 00:00:36,971 --> 00:00:38,141 And We're glad to hear you.4 00:00:38,141 --> 00:00:39,101 and We're glad to see ya.5 00:00:39,131 --> 00:00:39,431 I say.6 00:00:39,461 --> 00:00:40,091 we're glad to hear you.7 00:00:40,091 --> 00:00:40,931 And I really don't hear you.8 00:00:40,931 --> 00:00:43,001 So I don't know why I say that, but anyway.9 00:00:43,123 --> 00:00:43,933 Thanks, Chris, you didn't.10 00:00:44,113 --> 00:00:45,463 You could have encouraged me.11 00:00:46,033 --> 00:00:46,543 Wayne: You're right,12 00:00:46,543 --> 00:00:47,413 Dave: Dave, you're an idiot.13 00:00:47,443 --> 00:00:47,803 Thank you,14 00:00:48,103 --> 00:00:49,333 Chris: Just kept my mouth shut.15 00:00:50,333 --> 00:00:51,023 Dave: Yes.16 00:00:51,023 --> 00:00:51,983 I am.17 00:00:52,163 --> 00:00:52,673 Are you guys.18 00:00:52,913 --> 00:00:54,852 ready for the NCAA?19 00:00:55,092 --> 00:00:55,272 Chris: I am.20 00:00:55,272 --> 00:00:56,292 So looking forward to that.21 00:00:56,292 --> 00:00:56,562 Dave: Who are you?22 00:00:56,652 --> 00:00:57,882 Who you got one at all?23 00:00:57,912 --> 00:00:58,302 Wayne.24 00:00:59,772 --> 00:01:00,672 Wayne: I don't even know who's in it25 00:01:00,912 --> 00:01:01,152 Dave: just.26 00:01:01,152 --> 00:01:01,902 say Kentucky.27 00:01:02,232 --> 00:01:04,272 Thank you of you who don't know us.28 00:01:04,302 --> 00:01:04,422 we.29 00:01:04,422 --> 00:01:04,752 live in30 00:01:04,782 --> 00:01:05,262 Chris: Kentucky.31 00:01:05,262 --> 00:01:05,352 Wayne: here.32 00:01:05,352 --> 00:01:06,282 Dave: You got Chris.33 00:01:06,582 --> 00:01:08,396 Chris: Kentucky not Tennessee, even though34 00:01:08,396 --> 00:01:10,076 that's what my ballot may say.35 00:01:10,106 --> 00:01:11,366 Dave: As, Ah,36 00:01:11,396 --> 00:01:12,356 let us pray.37 00:01:13,676 --> 00:01:14,846 You trader.38 00:01:14,996 --> 00:01:15,986 Chris: Oh, I feel terrible.39 00:01:16,076 --> 00:01:16,616 Dave: know we have.40 00:01:16,976 --> 00:01:19,376 It has nothing to do with anything, but I want a UK shirt.41 00:01:19,376 --> 00:01:20,516 So I go big blue.42 00:01:20,606 --> 00:01:21,356 Chris: Yeah, absolutely.43 00:01:21,956 --> 00:01:22,586 Dave: All right.44 00:01:22,586 --> 00:01:24,446 So Psalm 25:21 says45 00:01:24,446 --> 00:01:29,246 may integrity And uprightness preserve me for, I wait for you, Oh Lord.46 00:01:29,306 --> 00:01:30,632 So that's the goal.47 00:01:30,662 --> 00:01:32,552 today that we are.48 00:01:32,822 --> 00:01:34,502 Being our best for God.49 00:01:34,502 --> 00:01:34,592 I don't50 00:01:34,592 --> 00:01:34,742 Chris: We're going51 00:01:34,742 --> 00:01:34,772 Dave: to52 00:01:34,772 --> 00:01:35,342 Chris: to talk about.53 00:01:36,302 --> 00:01:37,172 Thank you, man.54 00:01:37,262 --> 00:01:37,802 Dave: Alright.55 00:01:37,832 --> 00:01:39,182 Chris, what do you got for us?56 00:01:39,212 --> 00:01:39,902 Let's go.57 00:01:39,932 --> 00:01:41,612 Chris: Today, We're going to finish the leadership58 00:01:41,672 --> 00:01:42,122 ethics.59 00:01:42,122 --> 00:01:42,272 We60 00:01:42,272 --> 00:01:43,562 had a really good discussion.61 00:01:43,562 --> 00:01:45,632 where we discussed Kohlberg and his stages.62 00:01:45,722 --> 00:01:47,942 of ethical and morality.63 00:01:48,422 --> 00:01:50,222 So we're going to finish that today.64 00:01:50,732 --> 00:01:51,332 With.65 00:01:52,052 --> 00:01:53,822 Three of the most popular.66 00:01:54,932 --> 00:01:56,102 Leadership theories.67 00:01:56,102 --> 00:01:59,102 Those are adaptive leadership, transformational leadership,68 00:01:59,192 --> 00:02:00,902 and servant leadership.69 00:02:00,932 --> 00:02:02,882 and how leadership ethics applies to them.70 00:02:03,122 --> 00:02:03,752 Dave: Sounds good.71 00:02:03,752 --> 00:02:07,322 That, that, that stone cold Goldberg man, he does.72 00:02:07,982 --> 00:02:09,032 That's amazing.73 00:02:09,032 --> 00:02:10,892 That guy does so many things.74 00:02:12,332 --> 00:02:12,362 Chris: I75 00:02:12,632 --> 00:02:13,472 Dave: I'm joking.76 00:02:13,532 --> 00:02:13,652 You77 00:02:13,652 --> 00:02:15,332 don't have to tell us I was wrong.78 00:02:15,392 --> 00:02:16,292 I get it.79 00:02:16,352 --> 00:02:18,212 We're just trying to be a little like.80 00:02:18,992 --> 00:02:19,892 Lighten up.81 00:02:20,612 --> 00:02:21,182 Alright.82 00:02:21,212 --> 00:02:21,452 Chris: it.83 00:02:21,812 --> 00:02:22,772 Dave: That's a good laugh.84 00:02:22,772 --> 00:02:23,072 in one.85 00:02:23,072 --> 00:02:23,642 I haven't heard that86 00:02:23,672 --> 00:02:23,972 Chris: one yet.87 00:02:24,031 --> 00:02:26,403 We haven't done much funny, so we gotta work on that.88 00:02:26,903 --> 00:02:28,763 Dave: Now I feel guilty about that.89 00:02:29,483 --> 00:02:30,023 Currently.90 00:02:30,353 --> 00:02:31,853 And then funny, y'all go.91 00:02:31,973 --> 00:02:32,903 Chris: You're always funny.92 00:02:33,383 --> 00:02:33,743 Okay.93 00:02:33,833 --> 00:02:34,073 Tell94 00:02:34,073 --> 00:02:35,693 me if this sounds correct95 00:02:35,693 --> 00:02:36,203 or not.96 00:02:36,533 --> 00:02:37,253 It seems like97 00:02:37,253 --> 00:02:39,323 we live in a world where one, after98 00:02:39,323 --> 00:02:42,893 another high-profile scandals in business and government.99 00:02:42,893 --> 00:02:43,493 happened.100 00:02:43,883 --> 00:02:44,723 True or false.101 00:02:45,143 --> 00:02:45,653 Dave: True.102 00:02:45,713 --> 00:02:46,523 a hundred percent.103 00:02:47,523 --> 00:02:48,543 Chris: Because of this.104 00:02:48,783 --> 00:02:51,723 the interest in ethical leadership has grown proportionally.105 00:02:52,653 --> 00:02:56,253 The ethical scholars that are the leaders of ethical scholar studies,106 00:02:56,253 --> 00:03:00,513 such as Ronald high fights, James McGregor burns and rubber Greenleaf.107 00:03:00,873 --> 00:03:03,423 I provided a perspective in this area.108 00:03:03,813 --> 00:03:07,533 and a common theme is a need for leadership based on honesty.109 00:03:07,773 --> 00:03:10,353 Service for others and moral courage.110 00:03:10,383 --> 00:03:11,523 Would you agree with that?111 00:03:12,393 --> 00:03:12,783 Dave: Yeah.112 00:03:12,783 --> 00:03:14,583 that's a, that's an interesting.113 00:03:15,063 --> 00:03:17,283 Two words you put together their moral114 00:03:17,714 --> 00:03:18,074 Chris: Moral115 00:03:18,224 --> 00:03:20,414 Dave: When that word, what do you think about those two words,116 00:03:20,444 --> 00:03:20,864 Chris: Chris?117 00:03:21,374 --> 00:03:22,034 I think about when118 00:03:22,034 --> 00:03:24,734 you know, what the right thing is or what you should be doing.119 00:03:24,764 --> 00:03:26,924 But yet you don't have the courage to do120 00:03:26,924 --> 00:03:27,134 that.121 00:03:27,134 --> 00:03:27,584 It takes a122 00:03:27,584 --> 00:03:28,484 certain amount of courage123 00:03:28,484 --> 00:03:30,284 to stand up when you're against the crowd.124 00:03:30,554 --> 00:03:32,024 Dave: man, we need more Christians.125 00:03:32,024 --> 00:03:33,164 That have moral126 00:03:33,284 --> 00:03:33,704 Chris: do.127 00:03:33,914 --> 00:03:34,514 Amen.128 00:03:35,774 --> 00:03:36,194 Dave: Yeah.129 00:03:36,194 --> 00:03:37,274 What do you think Wayne?130 00:03:37,724 --> 00:03:39,794 Wayne: I literally tell my guys all the time.131 00:03:40,874 --> 00:03:42,644 Don't be afraid to be.132 00:03:43,194 --> 00:03:43,704 Different.133 00:03:44,454 --> 00:03:45,024 Chris: Very good.134 00:03:45,144 --> 00:03:46,224 Wayne: Be afraid to be the example.135 00:03:46,434 --> 00:03:47,244 Chris: Very good.136 00:03:47,574 --> 00:03:50,574 Dave: Being a guy created you to be, but make sure you have integrity.137 00:03:50,574 --> 00:03:53,153 And I think that's what we're going through today is that right?138 00:03:53,183 --> 00:03:53,783 Chris: That's it.139 00:03:53,843 --> 00:03:54,353 That's it.140 00:03:54,683 --> 00:03:56,063 So now for high fights.141 00:03:56,603 --> 00:03:59,633 The leadership involves using authority to help followers.142 00:03:59,723 --> 00:04:01,703 uphold the values in the workplace.143 00:04:02,123 --> 00:04:05,633 Burns his theory of transformational leadership, which you may remember.144 00:04:05,693 --> 00:04:09,743 emphasizes the moral development of followers and maintains a high145 00:04:09,743 --> 00:04:13,313 standards of ethical conduct while Greenleaf's approach to leadership146 00:04:13,613 --> 00:04:17,393 has strong, ethical overtones with the central premise, being that true147 00:04:17,393 --> 00:04:19,613 leadership is a service to others.148 00:04:20,603 --> 00:04:21,353 Dave: That's good stuff.149 00:04:21,383 --> 00:04:21,773 I think,150 00:04:21,824 --> 00:04:21,974 Chris: that.151 00:04:22,574 --> 00:04:22,694 I152 00:04:22,904 --> 00:04:25,574 Dave: one of the biggest things that the church is lacking.153 00:04:25,574 --> 00:04:26,054 and I know.154 00:04:26,114 --> 00:04:29,945 in our church is something we've wanted to get better at is serving attitude.155 00:04:30,009 --> 00:04:34,243 And the funny thing is just look next door and try it.156 00:04:34,273 --> 00:04:34,333 And.157 00:04:34,543 --> 00:04:38,083 You can do, you can serve people in ways you never dreamed of.158 00:04:38,110 --> 00:04:42,100 My wife, she doesn't always like being around people, but she can cook.159 00:04:42,430 --> 00:04:42,910 All day160 00:04:42,910 --> 00:04:46,000 long she loves taking people food and bless him that way.161 00:04:46,210 --> 00:04:48,010 Chris: Oh, she is so good at that too.162 00:04:48,280 --> 00:04:49,180 She's amazing.163 00:04:49,235 --> 00:04:52,999 Dave: She finds her lane and jumps in it and I think that's pretty important.164 00:04:52,999 --> 00:04:53,989 What do you think Wayne?165 00:04:54,589 --> 00:04:54,889 Wayne: Sure.166 00:04:54,889 --> 00:04:56,382 I Not everybody is going to do.167 00:04:56,832 --> 00:04:57,492 The same thing.168 00:04:57,492 --> 00:04:58,923 not everyone has the same gifts.169 00:04:58,923 --> 00:04:59,807 Chris: think we got a winner.170 00:04:59,897 --> 00:05:00,557 Very good.171 00:05:01,577 --> 00:05:01,787 Dave: That172 00:05:01,817 --> 00:05:02,036 Chris: was a.173 00:05:02,066 --> 00:05:02,786 Dave: fun sound.174 00:05:03,536 --> 00:05:04,376 Chris: We're trying them out.175 00:05:04,826 --> 00:05:08,126 So I think it may be good to review those three theories just quickly.176 00:05:08,396 --> 00:05:08,576 If177 00:05:08,576 --> 00:05:12,236 he remember high fights, his theory, is leadership, is adaptive leadership.178 00:05:12,506 --> 00:05:15,896 And in a nutshell, it states as the responsibility of the leader is to179 00:05:15,896 --> 00:05:19,736 assist the follower in struggling with change and personal growth.180 00:05:20,336 --> 00:05:20,726 Burns.181 00:05:20,726 --> 00:05:20,846 His182 00:05:20,846 --> 00:05:21,776 theory of leadership183 00:05:21,806 --> 00:05:23,516 is transformational leadership.184 00:05:23,546 --> 00:05:25,826 And he states that The leader's responsibility is185 00:05:25,826 --> 00:05:30,086 to assist the followers in assessing their values and needs, and to help followers186 00:05:30,086 --> 00:05:32,306 rise to a higher level of functioning.187 00:05:33,626 --> 00:05:34,346 And everybody's188 00:05:34,346 --> 00:05:35,876 favorite is Robert Greenleaf.189 00:05:35,906 --> 00:05:37,706 He developed his idea of servant190 00:05:37,706 --> 00:05:40,376 leadership and he says the leaders should be attentive.191 00:05:40,676 --> 00:05:44,426 to the concerns of their followers and should take care of them and nurture them.192 00:05:44,906 --> 00:05:47,426 In addition, Greenleaf argues that the servant leaders193 00:05:47,636 --> 00:05:49,316 have social responsibilities.194 00:05:49,316 --> 00:05:51,236 To be connected with the have-nots.195 00:05:51,236 --> 00:05:53,276 and Should strive to remove inequalities.196 00:05:53,306 --> 00:05:54,686 and social injustices.197 00:05:55,436 --> 00:05:58,346 Greenleaf Places a great deal of emphasis on listening.198 00:05:58,556 --> 00:06:01,406 empathy And unconditional acceptance of others.199 00:06:01,436 --> 00:06:02,366 Those sound familiar.200 00:06:02,696 --> 00:06:03,566 Dave: Absolutely.201 00:06:03,621 --> 00:06:04,365 And I think.202 00:06:05,205 --> 00:06:06,195 Say those again.203 00:06:06,195 --> 00:06:07,965 Cause I think it's important that we hear those.204 00:06:08,325 --> 00:06:09,225 Chris: Throws things again.205 00:06:09,255 --> 00:06:09,435 high.206 00:06:09,795 --> 00:06:11,955 This theory is adaptive leadership.207 00:06:12,045 --> 00:06:12,465 Burns.208 00:06:12,465 --> 00:06:14,685 is theory is transformational leadership.209 00:06:14,955 --> 00:06:17,235 and Greenleaf's theory is the servant leader.210 00:06:18,045 --> 00:06:21,945 Dave: and I think those are all important things that we need to apply.211 00:06:21,946 --> 00:06:22,967 Every one of those.212 00:06:23,027 --> 00:06:23,777 Chris: Absolutely.213 00:06:24,317 --> 00:06:25,127 So now let's quickly.214 00:06:25,127 --> 00:06:25,547 move on to215 00:06:25,547 --> 00:06:26,177 One more.216 00:06:26,507 --> 00:06:29,177 This was written in a book in 1986 called the217 00:06:29,177 --> 00:06:30,077 hard problems218 00:06:30,077 --> 00:06:30,827 of management.219 00:06:30,857 --> 00:06:33,707 gaining the ethics edge and it's by mark pasting.220 00:06:34,517 --> 00:06:36,797 Mark paced and was the first person to teach him.221 00:06:37,127 --> 00:06:37,817 I'm sorry, take a222 00:06:37,817 --> 00:06:39,047 managerial approach to223 00:06:39,047 --> 00:06:40,337 ethics in business.224 00:06:40,697 --> 00:06:41,057 This was225 00:06:41,057 --> 00:06:42,917 considered very thought provoking226 00:06:43,277 --> 00:06:43,997 at the time227 00:06:44,057 --> 00:06:45,947 and paste and makes the following228 00:06:45,947 --> 00:06:46,997 point to see229 00:06:47,027 --> 00:06:48,347 if you guys agree with this.230 00:06:48,767 --> 00:06:49,817 An ideal231 00:06:49,937 --> 00:06:51,497 ethical organization232 00:06:51,647 --> 00:06:53,657 adds to the value of the individuals233 00:06:53,657 --> 00:06:54,107 who are in the234 00:06:54,107 --> 00:06:54,947 organization.235 00:06:55,337 --> 00:06:59,297 It does not require that the individual sacrifice some of their integrity236 00:06:59,297 --> 00:07:00,969 to belong to the organization.237 00:07:01,469 --> 00:07:01,949 Dave: I agree.238 00:07:02,021 --> 00:07:02,711 I think.239 00:07:03,041 --> 00:07:07,812 One of the things that we have to do is it's just again, I know church work.240 00:07:07,842 --> 00:07:11,442 That's what I deal with and I have to make sure I'm above reproach.241 00:07:11,502 --> 00:07:12,252 Chris: Absolutely.242 00:07:12,672 --> 00:07:15,222 Dave: That, that people know I'm doing my best to live it.243 00:07:15,222 --> 00:07:17,892 That doesn't mean I won't make mistakes, but it means that when I244 00:07:17,892 --> 00:07:21,578 claim those mistakes allowing Jesus to work through me and get better.245 00:07:21,698 --> 00:07:22,328 Chris: Amen.246 00:07:22,538 --> 00:07:23,738 Wait, what do you think about that?247 00:07:24,488 --> 00:07:25,538 Wayne: It makes perfect sense.248 00:07:26,258 --> 00:07:29,228 Chris: Let me take that a step further and apply my own twist to that.249 00:07:29,588 --> 00:07:33,458 Leadership when understood correctly operates the same way.250 00:07:33,458 --> 00:07:36,188 Leadership adds to the value of the individuals.251 00:07:36,518 --> 00:07:39,488 And it should never require that individual sacrifice252 00:07:39,548 --> 00:07:40,788 any of their integrity.253 00:07:41,288 --> 00:07:42,248 Agree or disagree.254 00:07:42,398 --> 00:07:42,788 Wayne: I agree.255 00:07:42,968 --> 00:07:43,058 I256 00:07:43,058 --> 00:07:44,798 Dave: don't think you should ever sacrifice257 00:07:44,798 --> 00:07:45,818 The live like him.258 00:07:45,818 --> 00:07:48,698 And I think it's not something that we just act at.259 00:07:48,698 --> 00:07:49,448 we live at.260 00:07:49,478 --> 00:07:50,474 We work at it.261 00:07:50,474 --> 00:07:51,614 It's an every day.262 00:07:51,914 --> 00:07:53,234 put it on kind of thing.263 00:07:53,564 --> 00:07:54,254 Chris: Absolutely.264 00:07:54,644 --> 00:07:54,734 Does265 00:07:54,794 --> 00:07:55,394 Dave: make sense?266 00:07:55,724 --> 00:07:56,504 Chris: Perfect sense.267 00:07:56,534 --> 00:07:58,334 Wayne: If I can carry that one step further,268 00:07:58,334 --> 00:07:59,774 Dave: You absolutely can.269 00:08:00,254 --> 00:08:02,753 Wayne: That's something I've learned as I end up.270 00:08:02,820 --> 00:08:04,186 With opportunities to teach me.271 00:08:04,426 --> 00:08:05,236 At the church.272 00:08:06,166 --> 00:08:08,476 Is if I don't think of those.273 00:08:09,646 --> 00:08:11,116 Nights where I'm teaching.274 00:08:11,776 --> 00:08:12,916 As an assignment.275 00:08:13,486 --> 00:08:13,666 Chris: That276 00:08:13,666 --> 00:08:13,726 I277 00:08:13,726 --> 00:08:15,376 Wayne: have to cover a particular thing.278 00:08:15,766 --> 00:08:18,226 And live my daily life, always.279 00:08:19,036 --> 00:08:20,236 In that thing that.280 00:08:20,926 --> 00:08:22,366 In this case, in the word.281 00:08:23,146 --> 00:08:23,446 Then.282 00:08:23,716 --> 00:08:25,846 Wednesday nights means something completely different.283 00:08:25,996 --> 00:08:26,926 Chris: That's beautiful.284 00:08:27,076 --> 00:08:27,496 Yeah,285 00:08:27,586 --> 00:08:28,576 I can see that.286 00:08:28,816 --> 00:08:29,026 And he287 00:08:29,026 --> 00:08:29,986 Dave: does a great job.288 00:08:30,016 --> 00:08:30,856 on Wednesday nights.289 00:08:30,976 --> 00:08:31,246 Chris: Yes.290 00:08:31,306 --> 00:08:32,056 He really does.291 00:08:32,086 --> 00:08:33,946 Dave: important that you guys know that.292 00:08:34,484 --> 00:08:37,274 This things that we're talking about, it's not something that we just293 00:08:37,369 --> 00:08:37,579 Chris: it's294 00:08:37,579 --> 00:08:41,989 Dave: our life and we want to apply these things every day.295 00:08:42,079 --> 00:08:44,526 to to our leadership and be better at it.296 00:08:44,605 --> 00:08:45,325 Chris: Absolutely right.297 00:08:45,355 --> 00:08:46,145 Dave: So there you go.298 00:08:46,174 --> 00:08:48,064 Chris: Let me finish with this When the paced and viewed299 00:08:48,064 --> 00:08:50,062 leadership a social contract.300 00:08:50,662 --> 00:08:54,802 And he developed a two-prong test for deciding if ethics of that contract.301 00:08:54,892 --> 00:08:57,532 should be translated to the concept of leadership.302 00:08:58,462 --> 00:09:00,262 The social contract is sound.303 00:09:00,322 --> 00:09:04,642 If the parties to the contract would enter the contact freely and fairly.304 00:09:04,642 --> 00:09:05,602 is what he said.305 00:09:06,082 --> 00:09:10,102 The patient didn't tell us what he meant by the use of the word freely.306 00:09:10,402 --> 00:09:12,232 except it means voluntarily.307 00:09:12,562 --> 00:09:13,342 He also did308 00:09:13,342 --> 00:09:13,672 not.309 00:09:13,672 --> 00:09:15,832 define the word fairly.310 00:09:16,162 --> 00:09:20,962 But most of us know the secret to determining if a contract is fair,311 00:09:21,172 --> 00:09:22,552 Wayne, you're a Wheeler and dealer.312 00:09:22,552 --> 00:09:24,382 How do you know if a contract is fair?313 00:09:24,382 --> 00:09:25,609 There's a simple test.314 00:09:26,109 --> 00:09:28,659 Wayne: If everybody wins a little and everybody loses a little.315 00:09:29,049 --> 00:09:29,379 Chris: That's a316 00:09:29,379 --> 00:09:29,979 good answer.317 00:09:30,099 --> 00:09:30,579 Dave: That's good.318 00:09:30,579 --> 00:09:30,729 Wayne: but319 00:09:30,729 --> 00:09:31,809 Chris: that's not what I had in mind,320 00:09:31,839 --> 00:09:32,799 Dave: No you're wrong.321 00:09:33,799 --> 00:09:34,639 Loser.322 00:09:35,639 --> 00:09:36,539 Chris: Dave, what do you think.323 00:09:37,829 --> 00:09:38,129 I324 00:09:38,159 --> 00:09:38,369 Dave: I've325 00:09:38,369 --> 00:09:39,749 already forgot the question now.326 00:09:39,779 --> 00:09:40,199 go over it327 00:09:40,439 --> 00:09:43,139 Chris: It's a simple test to tell if any contract is fair.328 00:09:44,139 --> 00:09:44,739 Dave: I think if it.329 00:09:44,769 --> 00:09:45,639 were for me.330 00:09:45,639 --> 00:09:46,449 if it matches with.331 00:09:46,449 --> 00:09:49,239 truth, if it's, if it lines up to my.332 00:09:49,299 --> 00:09:50,019 Chris: can see that.333 00:09:50,049 --> 00:09:52,295 Dave: To what I believe you can tell me I'm wrong.334 00:09:52,295 --> 00:09:52,505 too.335 00:09:52,505 --> 00:09:52,685 It's336 00:09:52,715 --> 00:09:53,105 Chris: okay.337 00:09:53,165 --> 00:09:53,405 But.338 00:09:53,555 --> 00:09:56,375 the simple test to tell if any contract is fair.339 00:09:56,705 --> 00:10:00,155 If both parties would still agree if the roles were reversed.340 00:10:00,695 --> 00:10:00,905 Oh,341 00:10:01,895 --> 00:10:03,395 Dave: See, I wasn't even thinking that way.342 00:10:03,425 --> 00:10:03,635 That's.343 00:10:03,635 --> 00:10:04,085 good.344 00:10:05,135 --> 00:10:06,605 Wayne: He let you off easy on that one.345 00:10:06,725 --> 00:10:07,385 Chris: I did.346 00:10:07,445 --> 00:10:09,575 Dave: he did not lay you off.347 00:10:09,665 --> 00:10:10,325 Wayne: railed me.348 00:10:11,555 --> 00:10:13,415 Dave: That's because you're a loser349 00:10:13,475 --> 00:10:15,005 Chris: Maybe a little worse with.350 00:10:15,575 --> 00:10:17,855 So Here's a verse that I thought really tied in with this351 00:10:17,855 --> 00:10:19,235 it's Philippians two, three.352 00:10:19,475 --> 00:10:20,705 Do nothing from selfish.353 00:10:21,065 --> 00:10:22,925 selfish ambition or conceit.354 00:10:22,955 --> 00:10:23,885 but in humility.355 00:10:24,125 --> 00:10:26,555 count others more significant than yourself.356 00:10:26,735 --> 00:10:27,155 That's good.357 00:10:27,515 --> 00:10:29,045 Dave: I A hundred percent and.358 00:10:29,097 --> 00:10:29,967 What's that look like?359 00:10:29,967 --> 00:10:30,820 How you put that on.360 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:32,610 Chris: How to treat others.361 00:10:33,610 --> 00:10:35,320 More significantly than yourself.362 00:10:35,410 --> 00:10:35,920 Yes.363 00:10:36,490 --> 00:10:37,270 That's a good question.364 00:10:37,270 --> 00:10:38,860 How do we live that every day?365 00:10:39,420 --> 00:10:42,810 Dave: And I think again, so there's simple things you can do.366 00:10:42,810 --> 00:10:47,790 I remember when I first started ministry, I used to pass out those WWJD bracelets.367 00:10:48,330 --> 00:10:49,200 Chris: I remember those well.368 00:10:49,290 --> 00:10:49,470 Those369 00:10:49,470 --> 00:10:53,100 Dave: bracelets are good, but that lifestyle's better If you're really370 00:10:53,100 --> 00:10:55,590 asking yourself, what would Jesus do?371 00:10:55,860 --> 00:10:58,890 That's a great integrity model for you to follow.372 00:10:58,890 --> 00:11:00,340 How would Jesus handle this?373 00:11:00,340 --> 00:11:03,174 If someone hurts you, how would Jesus deal with that hurt?374 00:11:03,203 --> 00:11:07,703 Granted he's Jesus and we're not, but if we do our best to compare375 00:11:07,703 --> 00:11:09,533 it and use the word as our guide.376 00:11:10,403 --> 00:11:14,573 I've always discovered him with me to find godly people that I can trust.377 00:11:14,933 --> 00:11:16,073 And you know, what.378 00:11:16,133 --> 00:11:16,523 Chris,379 00:11:16,523 --> 00:11:17,183 what do you think.380 00:11:17,243 --> 00:11:18,203 Am I wrong here?381 00:11:18,353 --> 00:11:18,863 Chris: I agree.382 00:11:18,893 --> 00:11:22,523 Dave: And someone who will tell me I'm wrong.383 00:11:22,793 --> 00:11:25,883 It's just as important as someone who will tell me I'm right.384 00:11:25,973 --> 00:11:28,103 Chris: may be more important because they're more rare385 00:11:28,133 --> 00:11:28,223 Dave: now.386 00:11:28,373 --> 00:11:29,273 I think I'm right there.387 00:11:29,273 --> 00:11:29,843 Both equal.388 00:11:30,773 --> 00:11:31,373 Chris: I tried.389 00:11:31,373 --> 00:11:32,093 He didn't listen.390 00:11:32,660 --> 00:11:35,090 So I want to end this one with a couple of moral dilemmas.391 00:11:35,090 --> 00:11:36,260 Now, the purpose of this.392 00:11:36,680 --> 00:11:36,950 It's to393 00:11:36,950 --> 00:11:37,640 show you.394 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:39,290 With regards to ethics395 00:11:39,290 --> 00:11:40,160 or anything else?396 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:41,000 in leadership.397 00:11:41,420 --> 00:11:44,240 Sometimes there's no great decision.398 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:45,560 There's no perfect decision.399 00:11:45,560 --> 00:11:47,450 You're going to end up making people mad.400 00:11:47,780 --> 00:11:47,930 And401 00:11:47,930 --> 00:11:48,350 you're going to end402 00:11:48,350 --> 00:11:50,570 up making people think you've made unethical.403 00:11:50,570 --> 00:11:51,980 Decisions when the truth is.404 00:11:52,010 --> 00:11:53,450 You've done the best that you405 00:11:53,450 --> 00:11:53,930 can.406 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:55,760 Dave, I want to start with you.407 00:11:56,540 --> 00:11:59,570 In this dilemma, you're playing the role of a citizen.408 00:12:00,470 --> 00:12:00,770 I'm sure.409 00:12:00,770 --> 00:12:01,520 you can handle that.410 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:03,050 Dave: and gentlemen, Dave scaff.411 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:03,200 Yeah.412 00:12:03,740 --> 00:12:04,550 citizen413 00:12:04,550 --> 00:12:05,090 Wayne: Kane.414 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:06,140 Dave: citizen.415 00:12:07,140 --> 00:12:08,160 Chris: Let's give her a little drama to.416 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:08,580 that one.417 00:12:08,610 --> 00:12:08,790 We418 00:12:08,790 --> 00:12:09,570 Dave: like to have fun.419 00:12:10,570 --> 00:12:11,200 Chris: No.420 00:12:12,190 --> 00:12:13,180 Dave: Barry was.421 00:12:13,660 --> 00:12:15,490 Chris: Dave, you're driving your car.422 00:12:15,730 --> 00:12:17,590 When you come upon the scene of an accident.423 00:12:17,650 --> 00:12:20,590 and there's no emergency vehicles, you're the first car there.424 00:12:21,220 --> 00:12:22,152 And clearly.425 00:12:22,422 --> 00:12:25,572 one person will die without immediate medical care.426 00:12:26,202 --> 00:12:28,542 You take the victim and speed to the hospital.427 00:12:28,572 --> 00:12:29,742 You're going to save the life.428 00:12:29,742 --> 00:12:30,642 That's wonderful.429 00:12:31,062 --> 00:12:35,322 But the extra speed causes another accident and a person dies.430 00:12:35,772 --> 00:12:37,113 How should you be judged?431 00:12:37,613 --> 00:12:39,203 Dave: Oh, my goodness.432 00:12:39,863 --> 00:12:41,963 Oh, I didn't know world.433 00:12:42,963 --> 00:12:43,923 Chris: These are not easy.434 00:12:44,103 --> 00:12:44,613 Yeah.435 00:12:44,893 --> 00:12:45,595 Dave: I don't know.436 00:12:45,595 --> 00:12:46,165 I think.437 00:12:47,005 --> 00:12:48,955 I'm probably I lean gray.438 00:12:48,955 --> 00:12:50,995 So my heart was right.439 00:12:51,115 --> 00:12:53,065 I screwed up, but my heart was right.440 00:12:53,095 --> 00:12:53,965 How should I be judged?441 00:12:54,175 --> 00:12:58,675 So ultimately in the eyes of God, I think I gave grace in the eyes of people.442 00:12:58,705 --> 00:12:59,545 How they look at me.443 00:13:00,265 --> 00:13:00,355 Chris: I444 00:13:00,355 --> 00:13:00,475 don't445 00:13:00,475 --> 00:13:00,625 Dave: know.446 00:13:00,625 --> 00:13:03,475 I think it would go both ways and I just gotta be okay with knowing447 00:13:03,475 --> 00:13:04,585 that I was trying to do my best.448 00:13:04,615 --> 00:13:04,915 shit.449 00:13:04,915 --> 00:13:05,665 I've speeded.450 00:13:06,625 --> 00:13:07,075 Speeding.451 00:13:07,105 --> 00:13:07,945 Is that the right word?452 00:13:08,635 --> 00:13:10,045 Chris: Should I have gone453 00:13:10,045 --> 00:13:11,245 Dave: too fast.454 00:13:12,085 --> 00:13:12,625 Chris: That's it.455 00:13:13,169 --> 00:13:14,369 Dave: I've been drinking either.456 00:13:14,639 --> 00:13:15,149 All right.457 00:13:15,149 --> 00:13:15,569 Sorry.458 00:13:15,599 --> 00:13:17,669 Chris: you were Doing your best to save a life.459 00:13:17,699 --> 00:13:17,999 But460 00:13:18,089 --> 00:13:18,899 I don't think.461 00:13:18,929 --> 00:13:22,319 the Family of the person who died would agree with that at all.462 00:13:22,469 --> 00:13:22,709 Wayne: Yes, you463 00:13:22,769 --> 00:13:22,919 Dave: because.464 00:13:22,919 --> 00:13:23,309 you're driving.465 00:13:23,339 --> 00:13:23,519 Yeah, I466 00:13:23,549 --> 00:13:23,939 agree.467 00:13:24,119 --> 00:13:24,749 I get that.468 00:13:24,809 --> 00:13:25,979 I get both sides of it.469 00:13:26,035 --> 00:13:28,405 I get the hard, that's trying to save somebody to.470 00:13:28,420 --> 00:13:31,810 But I think ultimately you can't go wrong when you'll be the law.471 00:13:32,710 --> 00:13:33,280 Chris: That's true.472 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:34,060 Dave: I really don't.473 00:13:34,270 --> 00:13:34,750 And none of474 00:13:34,764 --> 00:13:36,264 Chris: What if you would have obeyed The law.475 00:13:36,294 --> 00:13:38,094 And you didn't speed, you didn't cause an476 00:13:38,094 --> 00:13:39,684 accident, but the person you're trying to477 00:13:39,684 --> 00:13:41,184 save died and his family.478 00:13:41,184 --> 00:13:43,362 thought, Man, why didn't he step on it?479 00:13:43,364 --> 00:13:45,884 Dave: And again, it comes down to my heart.480 00:13:45,884 --> 00:13:47,024 You can't judge my heart.481 00:13:47,054 --> 00:13:48,824 Chris, cause that's between me and God.482 00:13:49,184 --> 00:13:50,444 Chris: You're absolutely right.483 00:13:50,444 --> 00:13:52,994 Dave: but If I want, if I think I'm doing the right thing then I484 00:13:52,994 --> 00:13:54,164 think I'm doing the right thing.485 00:13:54,164 --> 00:13:55,044 Wayne, what do you think?486 00:13:55,044 --> 00:13:55,422 Wayne: I think.487 00:13:55,992 --> 00:13:58,122 No one can predict the future.488 00:13:59,022 --> 00:14:01,392 So it goes back for me every time I.489 00:14:01,392 --> 00:14:03,342 think I'm about to get vested for speeding.490 00:14:04,212 --> 00:14:05,112 I always have this.491 00:14:05,382 --> 00:14:08,532 made up conversation I can go through my head with the police officer.492 00:14:09,059 --> 00:14:10,619 Dave: I've had to drive with him.493 00:14:10,739 --> 00:14:11,159 Chris: my God.494 00:14:11,969 --> 00:14:15,299 Dave: This is going to be so much fun For me.495 00:14:15,299 --> 00:14:16,049 to go off here.496 00:14:16,049 --> 00:14:16,919 and it's, I can't go ahead.497 00:14:17,919 --> 00:14:19,359 Wayne: Because I always think.498 00:14:20,359 --> 00:14:21,499 If I hadn't been speeding.499 00:14:21,499 --> 00:14:24,229 I wouldn't be in this place, but if I had been going slower than500 00:14:24,229 --> 00:14:25,699 maybe I would have been an accident.501 00:14:25,849 --> 00:14:26,599 Like we really just.502 00:14:26,659 --> 00:14:28,699 Chris: Oh, you've put some real thought into that.503 00:14:28,789 --> 00:14:28,849 You504 00:14:29,089 --> 00:14:30,409 Dave: have put your phone down.505 00:14:30,499 --> 00:14:30,559 Yeah,506 00:14:31,969 --> 00:14:32,269 Chris: Hey.507 00:14:32,479 --> 00:14:33,469 Wayne: I was speeding.508 00:14:34,369 --> 00:14:35,209 I wasn't doing the509 00:14:35,209 --> 00:14:35,869 Dave: speeding.510 00:14:37,339 --> 00:14:37,699 Chris: Okay.511 00:14:37,729 --> 00:14:38,869 Look the point of this.512 00:14:39,409 --> 00:14:40,399 Is hopefully.513 00:14:40,669 --> 00:14:41,269 You can see in the514 00:14:41,299 --> 00:14:42,319 listeners can see that515 00:14:42,349 --> 00:14:43,729 sometimes as516 00:14:43,729 --> 00:14:44,299 a leader, you're517 00:14:44,299 --> 00:14:45,589 going to have to make decisions.518 00:14:45,589 --> 00:14:46,920 that not everyone's gonna And some519 00:14:46,920 --> 00:14:47,730 people are gonna think.520 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:49,920 are unethical, but you have to make521 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:53,280 the best decision with the information you have at that time.522 00:14:53,310 --> 00:14:54,870 And not looking back at it.523 00:14:55,380 --> 00:14:56,100 Dave: Absolutely.524 00:14:56,370 --> 00:14:56,970 That's good.525 00:14:57,060 --> 00:14:57,330 Chris: Wayne.526 00:14:57,360 --> 00:14:59,880 I've got one for you in this moral dilemma, you'll be527 00:14:59,880 --> 00:15:01,420 playing the role of a salesman.528 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:02,310 Oh, no.529 00:15:02,310 --> 00:15:03,480 Dave: Ladies and gentlemen.530 00:15:03,630 --> 00:15:04,770 Wayne: I'm broken, starving.531 00:15:05,790 --> 00:15:06,060 Yeah.532 00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:08,670 Chris: You learn that your company is selling.533 00:15:08,670 --> 00:15:10,050 faulty equipment.534 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:11,760 That could be dangerous.535 00:15:12,330 --> 00:15:14,580 But your spouse needs medical treatment.536 00:15:14,580 --> 00:15:18,360 That costs a lot of money and it's a large percentage of your income.537 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:20,010 You believe that.538 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:25,020 if you confront your employer with the faulty equipment, you will lose your job.539 00:15:25,530 --> 00:15:26,820 And your wife will die.540 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:27,180 What do541 00:15:27,180 --> 00:15:27,750 you do?542 00:15:28,750 --> 00:15:29,290 Compared to543 00:15:29,290 --> 00:15:29,680 Wayne: to answer.544 00:15:30,610 --> 00:15:32,020 Chris: I wish I had the jeopardy thing.545 00:15:32,050 --> 00:15:32,200 Yeah,546 00:15:33,430 --> 00:15:33,910 Dave: dun.547 00:15:34,496 --> 00:15:34,856 Dun.548 00:15:34,856 --> 00:15:38,306 Wayne: I wouldn't bring it up to somebody in my company.549 00:15:38,756 --> 00:15:40,256 Chris: Higher than you are lower than you.550 00:15:40,376 --> 00:15:40,946 Higher than.551 00:15:41,156 --> 00:15:41,240 Okay.552 00:15:41,740 --> 00:15:43,570 Wayne: But I would probably have the goods.553 00:15:44,410 --> 00:15:45,580 If they came back on me.554 00:15:46,580 --> 00:15:48,530 To pursue some other sort of action.555 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:49,610 If I got fired.556 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:51,230 Chris: So you557 00:15:51,290 --> 00:15:52,130 Wayne: We're doing the right thing.558 00:15:52,190 --> 00:15:52,730 Chris: Okay.559 00:15:53,030 --> 00:15:55,250 It's like a whistleblower thing or something like that.560 00:15:55,760 --> 00:15:56,270 Okay.561 00:15:57,320 --> 00:15:57,770 Okay.562 00:15:58,130 --> 00:15:59,399 Yeah, your wife has.563 00:16:00,059 --> 00:16:01,536 Certainly your main564 00:16:01,536 --> 00:16:02,346 priority.565 00:16:02,586 --> 00:16:02,856 Sure.566 00:16:03,066 --> 00:16:06,696 But if you don't do something, someone could be injured or die.567 00:16:06,726 --> 00:16:07,769 Dave, what do you think about it?568 00:16:07,769 --> 00:16:09,569 Dave: Doing the right things, doing the right thing.569 00:16:09,689 --> 00:16:09,779 I570 00:16:09,809 --> 00:16:11,489 Wayne: think there's that answer again?571 00:16:11,789 --> 00:16:11,909 Dave: I572 00:16:11,909 --> 00:16:12,539 think Wayne's573 00:16:12,539 --> 00:16:12,719 Chris: right.574 00:16:12,959 --> 00:16:13,079 Dave: And.575 00:16:13,319 --> 00:16:14,999 Wayne: I'm just going to pick the right answer.576 00:16:15,779 --> 00:16:17,039 That's what he did last time,577 00:16:17,249 --> 00:16:18,599 Dave: But it's true.578 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:19,630 If you do what.579 00:16:20,020 --> 00:16:21,430 You know is right.580 00:16:22,690 --> 00:16:25,479 Ultimately, we stand before a judge,581 00:16:25,485 --> 00:16:26,055 judge582 00:16:26,415 --> 00:16:28,125 Chris: And God, the father and583 00:16:28,215 --> 00:16:28,635 amen.584 00:16:28,845 --> 00:16:29,295 I585 00:16:29,295 --> 00:16:32,205 Dave: don't want to stand before him and not have done the wrong thing.586 00:16:32,295 --> 00:16:35,955 All right, I had done the wrong thing, And So I think doing587 00:16:35,955 --> 00:16:37,185 the right thing, you can't.588 00:16:37,395 --> 00:16:37,605 eat.589 00:16:37,635 --> 00:16:38,625 That's it now.590 00:16:40,125 --> 00:16:40,365 Wayne: Does591 00:16:40,515 --> 00:16:41,835 Dave: make it easy No.592 00:16:41,835 --> 00:16:44,535 And do I understand if someone didn't do the right thing.593 00:16:44,565 --> 00:16:45,465 A hundred percent.594 00:16:45,945 --> 00:16:47,775 But doing the right things doing right thing.595 00:16:47,865 --> 00:16:48,443 Chris: Absolutely.596 00:16:48,493 --> 00:16:50,323 Galatians 5:16 tells us.597 00:16:50,803 --> 00:16:55,063 But I say walk by the spirit and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.598 00:16:55,393 --> 00:16:56,113 For the desires599 00:16:56,113 --> 00:16:57,673 of the flesh are against the spirit.600 00:16:57,673 --> 00:16:57,823 And.601 00:16:57,823 --> 00:16:58,873 the desires of the spirit.602 00:16:58,873 --> 00:16:59,023 or.603 00:16:59,023 --> 00:17:00,152 against the flesh.604 00:17:00,652 --> 00:17:01,342 Dave: There you go.605 00:17:01,392 --> 00:17:02,205 It's turmoil.606 00:17:02,205 --> 00:17:02,535 It's.607 00:17:02,805 --> 00:17:04,629 we're constantly in a sin battle.608 00:17:04,629 --> 00:17:06,039 I think we talked about this a little bit,609 00:17:06,099 --> 00:17:06,789 Chris: Absolutely.610 00:17:06,789 --> 00:17:07,146 Are.611 00:17:07,146 --> 00:17:09,663 Dave: Sin at its core is it's the Greek word home RTA.612 00:17:10,083 --> 00:17:12,093 Which means missing the mark.613 00:17:12,393 --> 00:17:12,603 And614 00:17:12,603 --> 00:17:13,293 Chris: I love that.615 00:17:13,413 --> 00:17:13,983 Love that.616 00:17:14,043 --> 00:17:14,403 Wayne: Hey.617 00:17:15,033 --> 00:17:17,043 Dave: Yeah, it's an archery term, Chris.618 00:17:17,493 --> 00:17:20,798 And it's based on, when you don't hit the targets straight on you,619 00:17:20,828 --> 00:17:24,578 miss the, you miss the point you've sent and messing God.620 00:17:24,698 --> 00:17:25,058 Hey.621 00:17:25,448 --> 00:17:26,288 Wayne's over there.622 00:17:26,288 --> 00:17:27,938 acting like, he's going to shoot an arrow at me.623 00:17:27,968 --> 00:17:29,159 Can you please stop him?624 00:17:29,198 --> 00:17:30,518 Grow up Wayne, come625 00:17:30,518 --> 00:17:31,808 Chris: not putting an apple on your head.626 00:17:31,808 --> 00:17:32,768 Don't even think that.627 00:17:33,278 --> 00:17:33,998 Dave: Yeah, but.628 00:17:34,148 --> 00:17:38,648 But it's really important to understand anything that's not God.629 00:17:38,678 --> 00:17:39,968 and you're messing the point.630 00:17:40,148 --> 00:17:40,988 at sin.631 00:17:41,288 --> 00:17:43,268 And I think we try and justify.632 00:17:43,298 --> 00:17:43,928 it so well.633 00:17:44,138 --> 00:17:45,008 it's not a bad bag.634 00:17:45,038 --> 00:17:46,418 Cause I'm trusting my heart was right.635 00:17:46,418 --> 00:17:47,708 And I even said that in the beginning,636 00:17:47,768 --> 00:17:48,098 Chris: did.637 00:17:48,158 --> 00:17:48,428 Yes.638 00:17:49,088 --> 00:17:53,288 Dave: ultimately if your heart is that of Christ Jesus, then your heart is right.639 00:17:53,708 --> 00:17:54,368 Chris: Absolutely.640 00:17:54,578 --> 00:17:55,088 I come641 00:17:55,088 --> 00:17:58,088 Dave: from a point of view or my heart's right, because I'm loving Jesus.642 00:17:58,388 --> 00:17:58,748 Chris: Yes.643 00:17:58,748 --> 00:17:59,678 Dave: Does that make sense?644 00:17:59,678 --> 00:18:02,301 And so I need to do the right thing because I love Jesus.645 00:18:02,371 --> 00:18:05,611 And doing that is what he's given me here on this earth to do.646 00:18:05,731 --> 00:18:06,331 Does that make647 00:18:06,331 --> 00:18:06,511 Chris: sense?648 00:18:07,171 --> 00:18:08,011 That's beautiful.649 00:18:08,101 --> 00:18:09,571 Dave: Ladies and gentlemen, thank you.650 00:18:10,097 --> 00:18:10,757 All right.651 00:18:11,757 --> 00:18:12,447 Chris: Anything else?652 00:18:12,567 --> 00:18:13,497 I think we've covered it.653 00:18:13,707 --> 00:18:13,797 All654 00:18:13,947 --> 00:18:15,237 Dave: Let me close with this then.655 00:18:15,327 --> 00:18:15,627 Sorry.656 00:18:15,657 --> 00:18:16,437 there was a little blank.657 00:18:16,437 --> 00:18:16,557 There658 00:18:16,587 --> 00:18:17,187 Chris: you can fix that659 00:18:17,187 --> 00:18:17,517 Dave: later.660 00:18:17,847 --> 00:18:18,477 All right.661 00:18:18,927 --> 00:18:20,067 Colossians three 12 says662 00:18:20,067 --> 00:18:20,187 Chris: this.663 00:18:21,187 --> 00:18:22,417 you can just start.664 00:18:23,417 --> 00:18:24,737 Dave: I'm really confused.665 00:18:25,937 --> 00:18:26,357 All right.666 00:18:26,387 --> 00:18:26,927 Collage is.667 00:18:27,107 --> 00:18:30,167 Oh, three 12 says this, therefore, as God's chosen.668 00:18:30,617 --> 00:18:31,517 Chosen ones.669 00:18:32,027 --> 00:18:33,557 Holy and dearly love.670 00:18:33,767 --> 00:18:37,157 Put on compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.671 00:18:37,547 --> 00:18:39,737 Bearing with one another forgiving one another.672 00:18:39,737 --> 00:18:43,367 And if anyone has a grievance against one another, just as the Lord has673 00:18:43,367 --> 00:18:45,467 forgiven you, you also forgive.674 00:18:45,827 --> 00:18:51,647 Them above all put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity.675 00:18:51,887 --> 00:18:53,387 and let the peace of Christ.676 00:18:53,537 --> 00:18:58,127 to which you are also called in one body and one heart and be thankful.677 00:18:58,637 --> 00:19:01,067 But the word of Christ dwell in you richly among you.678 00:19:01,247 --> 00:19:02,237 That's it right there.679 00:19:02,547 --> 00:19:04,167 There's a lot more to that.680 00:19:04,167 --> 00:19:09,207 but the goal is simply this am I living out?681 00:19:09,627 --> 00:19:11,007 My Christian walk.682 00:19:11,067 --> 00:19:14,083 My Christ centerdness, that's, we are Christians, which is683 00:19:14,083 --> 00:19:15,193 basically as Christ, DNS.684 00:19:15,583 --> 00:19:16,393 what's what we are.685 00:19:16,423 --> 00:19:17,383 that's What we do.686 00:19:17,833 --> 00:19:20,323 And this Christian life can be summed up in that.687 00:19:20,323 --> 00:19:24,701 And go back and read that Colossians three could read the whole part 12 through 17.688 00:19:24,911 --> 00:19:27,731 I cut it short, but read that whole thing because it's really689 00:19:27,731 --> 00:19:28,841 important that you understand.690 00:19:29,081 --> 00:19:29,891 you are chosen.691 00:19:29,891 --> 00:19:33,161 You are loved and you are called to be better.692 00:19:33,431 --> 00:19:37,631 And as Christian leaders, I challenge you to do that.693 00:19:37,811 --> 00:19:38,741 Can I get an amen?694 00:19:38,861 --> 00:19:39,671 Chris: Amen.695 00:19:39,731 --> 00:19:40,181 Wayne: Amen.696 00:19:40,421 --> 00:19:41,201 Dave: Have a great week.697 00:19:41,231 --> 00:19:41,951 Goodbye, everybody.